PHOTO: Lorraine Wilson
Dogs are incredible. They love to run, chase, jump, chew, bark, and explore the world with noses 10,000–100,000 times more sensitive than ours. That zigzag walk on a leash? Not bad manners, it’s their super-powered nose at work!
Even trained dogs can do amazing things, like detecting whale poop from a nautical mile away. Their abilities are wild, impressive, and often very different from what we expect in a “well-behaved pet.”
And yet, despite all their instincts and energy, dogs adapt to our busy human world, leashes, sidewalks, eye contact. They constantly compromise to live alongside us.
Maybe not in the way most people think. Obedience doesn’t always equal wellbeing. A dog can sit perfectly on command yet still be anxious, stressed, or disconnected. Instead of focusing on control, what if we focused on connection and understanding?
Dogs were bred to chase, bark, chew, dig, and explore. We ask them not to, but what if we instead asked:
“How can I meet your dog’s needs in the world we live in?”
When dogs feel safe, stimulated, and understood, training becomes easy, natural, and joyful. When their instincts are ignored, frustration builds, for both dogs and humans.
For Humans:
1. Feeling overwhelmed or exhausted
2. Correcting or scolding often
3. Embarrassed by dog behavior in public
4. Using punishment or force (there are better, science-backed methods!)
5. Raising a puppy under 14 weeks (critical learning period)
For Dogs:
1. Fearful of new people, places, or objects
2. Guarding toys, food, or people
3. Freezing, fawning, fighting, or fleeing
4. Excessive barking or obsessive behaviors
5. Self-harming, withdrawn, or hypervigilant
If you notice these signs, your dog might need more support, not just training, but help with emotional wellbeing.
Training isn’t about control, it’s about communication and compassion. Great training teaches you to read your dog’s body language, understand their signals, and respond with empathy, building a relationship rooted in trust and joy.
Recommended Resource: Doggie Language by Lili Chin, visual, fun, and easy to follow.
⚠️ Important Note: Dog training is unregulated. Years of experience ≠ knowledge of animal behavior. Ask for someone qualified, you and your dog deserve the best. ⚠️